Pāpā ʻilihune!Hiki iaʻu ke ʻōlelo i nā mea e like me kēia me ka hapa nui o nā keiki a ʻo ka mea maʻamau, lilo ʻo mama i mea punahele, no ka mea maʻa mākou e noho a puni.Me ia ʻaʻole wau i manaʻo punahele ma ke ʻano "aloha hou aku", akā wale nōmakemake ʻia ma muli o hhe wahimaoli.
He mea maʻamau ka hele ʻana o nā pēpē i nā manawa o ka makemake hoʻokahi wale nō o nā mākua i nā ʻano (a i ʻole nā mea āpau).
Luhi no ka makua makemake, kaumaha no ka mea i hooleia.
Haawi i ke kuleana piha i ka PAPA I ka po
Malia paha ʻo ʻoe ka mea i hele pinepine i kāu kaikamahine i ka pō ke kumu ʻo ia e hoʻokuke nei i ka makuakāne.
Inā makemake ʻoe e hoʻololi i kēia manawa, pono paha ʻoe e hāʻawi iā iakuleana piha i ka pō- i kēlā me kēia pō.Ma ka liʻiliʻi no kekahi manawa.
He paʻakikī paha kēia e hoʻokō i kēia manawa, no ʻoukou a pau.
Eia kekahi, ʻōlelo ʻoe e hana ana ka makuakāne i ka pō i kekahi manawa.ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻoiai inā makemake nui ʻo makuakāne e puliki me kāu kaikamahine, he hoʻololi ia o kāna mau hana maʻamau no HER, a ʻaʻole paha ʻo ia ka mea āna i manaʻo ai, makemake a makemake ai i kona ala ʻana i ka pō.
He poʻe aloha maʻamau nā pēpē.
Akā, e ho'āʻo mua i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻelua ma lalo nei, a i ka wā e hana ai kēia mau mea, hiki iā ʻoe ke neʻe e ʻae iā papa e mālama i nā pō.
I. NA PAPA e lawelawe i ka moe mua ma ke ahiahi
ʻO kekahi mea hiki kena ka papa e malama i ka moe mua i ke ahiahia i ʻole i ka wā hiamoe i ke ao.
ʻO ka hoʻopunipuni e hoʻokuʻu maoli iā lāuaimi i ko lakou ala (hou).me ke keakea ole.Ma kēia ala e ʻike ai lākou i kā lākou mau hana maʻamau hou a ʻike kāu kaikamahine hiki iā ia ke hilinaʻi i kēia mau hana ʻoluʻolu me ka makuakāne.
II.E HAKOO I KE KEIKI I KOU MOE KE ALA OIA
ʻO kekahi mea āu e hoʻāʻo ai, ʻaʻole e hoʻopaʻa iā ia i kou mau lima e hoʻi i ka hiamoe i ka pō, akāE hoʻokomo iā ia ma kou wahi moe ma waena o ʻolua no kekahi manawa.
Ma kēia ala e hele mai ai ʻo Māmā a me Pāpā, ʻo ia hoʻi, e ʻae ʻo ia e kōkua ana ʻo ia i kekahi manawa.
Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e makaʻala i ka moe pū ʻana, no ka mea, he pilikia maoli ia no kāu pēpē.No laila, e makaala a i ʻole e hōʻoia ʻoe ua hoʻokō ʻoe i nā hoʻemi pilikia e pono ai no ka hiamoe ʻana.
E LAAU I KO KAU MANAO
ʻOiai e hoʻomau ana kēia mau mea, pehea ka manaʻo o ka makuahine a me ka makuakāne - a ʻoi aku ka nui o ka makuakāne - ʻoi aku paha ka mea nui ma mua o ke kūlana maoli;koupēpēʻAʻole paha ʻike ʻo ia i kahi pilikia, makemake wale ʻo ia iā mama…
Ua nīnau au i kaʻu kāne he aha kāna ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo maikaʻi loa i kēia kūlana;maopopo, ua hele ʻo ia ma laila i nā manawa he nui.ʻO kēia kāna i ʻōlelo ai:
E ho'āʻo ee hoʻokuʻu i ka manaʻono ka hoka a me ke kaumaha a me ka lili a i ʻole ka huhū me kāu wahine.Pono ke keiki i kāna mea e pono ai a ʻokoʻa kēia i ka manawa.Akā, e hoʻolilo i ka manawa like me kāu kaikamahine a hiki mai ka uku!
He aha nā keiki e makemake nui ai e palekana me kekahi kanaka (makua, makua, a ʻo wai paha) ka manawa hui.E ʻoluʻolu e pili ana i kēia kūlana kikoʻī, mai hoʻoikaika i kekahi mea.Akā, e noho pū me ia i kahi ala maikaʻi, i ke ao a i ʻole ka pō.
No laila, manaʻo wau ʻo kā mākou ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo i hui pū ʻiae hoʻokuʻu i ka pēpē iā Māmā ke makemake ʻo ia a e hōʻoia i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻia ʻana o ka makuakāne i ka wā hiki.E hoʻomanaʻo he mea maʻamau ka hōʻole ʻana o kahi pēpē e hiamoe no ka makuakāne.He mea maʻamau no nā kamaliʻi!
E kamaʻilio ma o ka hoʻolālā (me ka hiamoe, kaʻana moe a i ʻole) inā he mea nui nā pō iā ʻoe.
Ka manawa hoʻouna: Feb-20-2023
